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ON PRACTICE
T. D. ZINKEVICH-EVSTIGNEEVA
PRACTICE ON
FAIRY TREATMENT
O
SPEECH
PUBLISHER
The guide to fairy tale therapy is addressed to psychologists, educators,
psychotherapists, doctors, philologists, parents and all those who feel
there is a closeness to the fairy-tale genre. In the popular form of storytelling-
it is about what types of fairy tales exist, how they can be
use in the process of psychological, pedagogical and educational
tel work; discusses techniques for creating specialized
fairy tales that help learning, remove inadequate emotional
manifestations, correcting behavior and contributing to the
fdi in spicy stressful situations... The edition is textbook
character: fairy tales for practical work with a comment
and recommendations for use.
Probably, there is no person who would not like fairy tales. Those of
us who are not interested in the classic versions of fabulous
stories, watching action films, horror films, reading detective stories,
romance novels and fantasy. But what is it if not modern
fairy tales?
People tend to share stories. To
to tell and listen to them, we are going to a festive
scrap, watch the show on TV.
The exchange of stories, like the exchange of life experiences, is natural
venous form of interaction between people. Therefore, we consider-
eat fairy tale therapy - natural form communication and transmission
experience, an organic system of educating new generations.
In fairytale therapy seminars, we explore fairytale
times, we try to reveal the secrets of fairy-tale composition. And often, in
the first day of classes, you have to hear the request of the participants:
We usually answer: best fairy tales you write and choose yourself>. at least landmarks!> - ask the participants of the seminar. In response to
this request you hold in the hands of our leadership. This book
will be useful for those who prefer to work with ready-made material
riyal, and those who like to write fairy tales themselves.
So, we have an exciting journey through a variety of
different fairy tales. Something can make you smile, something under-
will push you to think, but something will encourage creativity.
Many of the tales cited here are written by people who
who have never done this before, and nevertheless, on one
breath created a unique fairy tale story. May be
and you, dear reader, will be inspired by this experience and trust
those on paper the fairy tale of your Soul? ..
Workshop on fairy tale therapy
You will learn how to work with artistic fairy tales; how
independently create stories that help children learn and
harmoniously change behavior; how to use fairy tales in
bot with situations in which, at first glance, psycho
the log is powerless ... But, most importantly, the Tale living inside you,
will unfold before you the treasures of your soul.
CHAPTER 1
GENERAL REGULATIONS
WORKS WITH FAIRY TALES
TALE THERAPY AS AN EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM,
ORGANIC INNER HUMAN NATURE
Recently, the term has become increasingly popular.
special and popular editions. True, there is also
(a term that, for some reason, is
used by teachers), but it is not known whether there is between these
there is a fundamental difference in terms. perhaps
sounds prettier.
I remember one incident. At the bank we were stopped during
armed guards. They took a close look at our
documents and suddenly asked in surprise: fairy tale therapy? What is it?> I prepared to explain
took more air into her lungs, but the guards did not wait for an answer.
that asked:.
Yes, probably in our urbanized world, saturated
information and stress, the Soul asks for Tales ...
The soul asks for a fairy tale or that special state that alone
they call it Happiness, others - the expectation of a Miracle, others - Feel-
childhood, the fourth - ...
So what is fairy tale therapy? The first thing that comes in
head - treatment with fairy tales. Knowledge has been passed down from time immemorial
through parables, stories, fairy tales, legends, myths. And here
treatment? Does knowledge multiply sorrow or does it heal the Soul? On the
this question, probably, is and will be many answers. Knowledge is hidden
war, deep, not only about yourself, but also about the world around,
definitely heals. And it is today, at the end of the millennium, to
people are intuitively drawn to him. Reread and interpret
The Bible, they are looking for hidden meaning in fairy tales, legends and myths,
there may also be in order to rediscover what is in the depths
souls have long been known? .. Therefore, when we talk about the fact that
fairy tale therapy is a treatment with fairy tales, we mean combining
open with the client the knowledge that lives in the soul
and are currently psychotherapeutic.
Some people think that fairy tale therapy is a me-
tod. Yes and no. in the sense that it is addressed to
to a living creative creative open mind in a person - yes. in the sense that it is limited
by age - no. her, - sarcastically remarked to us, without understanding the essence, the
Giver of the board of a large Latvian university. - Fairy tales
after all, only for children!> Excuse me, so what are fairy tales?
If - a figment of the imagination, then why are modern detective tales
tives, thrillers, fantasy, love and adventure romances
us? But adults read them! If ancient knowledge is encrypted-
new in attractive images and intriguing situations, then
is this information only for children? We believe that the tale
ka is. Each layer has its own meaning. When we
we read a fairy tale, follow a fascinating plot, our lack of consciousness
worn already and knocked out
Heavens for itself. That is, that, that meaning,
which is most in tune with the worldview at the moment,
one that can answer an internal question. In that
the secret of fairy tales - at any age in them
you can discover something intimate and exciting.
Therefore, fairy tale therapy is a process of searching for meaning,
encryption of knowledge about the world and the system of relationships in it.
The process of deciphering knowledge ... Indeed, when
you can look at a fairy tale from different angles, at different levels
yah, it turns out that fairy tales contain information
about the dynamics of life processes. In fairy tales you can find half
a list of human problems and figurative ways to solve them
sheniya. Listening to fairy tales in childhood, a person accumulates in the unconscious
the body is a kind of symbolic. This
can be activated if necessary, rather than
if there will be a situation, it will remain passive. In the process of psycho-
logical counseling we refer to as a vital
the patient's experience and his fairy-tale situations>. This often allows you to find the right solution.
A fairy tale can give a symbolic warning about how
the situation will unfold. But do we always have ears to
hear him? As a rule, the meaning of events is clear only in the background.
number and then an adult. Therefore, fairy tale therapy for
children is connected, first of all, with the awareness of the meaning of fabulous events
and their relationship to real life situations. If a child with
early age will begin to realize, respond to
question:, correlate answers with
his behavior, he will become an active user of his
... And I want to believe it will be wiser
eye and creative. By the way, this is the answer to those who criticized us
because we are children from reality to fairy tales. Vice versa,
fairy tale therapy is the process of forming a connection between fairy tale
events and behavior in real life. This is a process
transfer of fabulous meanings into reality.
For example. The guys and I read and analyze the tale of R. Kip-
linga about Keith. Its plot is as follows. There was a whale in the ocean and
he had a big gulp. And indiscriminately, he ate every time
fish, opening its big mouth every time. He ate and
herring, and herring's aunt, and beluga, and stellate sturgeon, every time
doing AM, AM, AM. Finally, the moment came when he ate all
fish. And he was starving for a while. However, it turned out that still
a little thorny Fish survived. She swam beside
with whale's ear. She said to him: is there a man?> Kit did not know who it was, so he asked for a
go to him a couple. But Rybka explained to him that a person is painful.
shoy, and it is enough to eat one to stay full for a long time.
She undertook to show Keith the site of the shipwreck. Meanwhile
the shipwrecked Sailor was sitting on the raft,
diving into the water and smoking a pipe. Keith, as always, without thinking
swallowed the Sailor along with the raft, pipe and braces. Mo-
The ryak in Kit's belly began to dance, which caused the latter to fear
hiccups. Keith asked Rybka for advice on how to get rid of the iko-
you. And I got the answer - to release the Sailor. hungry!> - Keith was indignant. or be hungry>, - answered Rybka. Keith chose the latter
and opened his mouth. But the Sailor refused to go out. Only if Keith
will take him to the shores of England, the sailor will leave the poor man alone. Have
Kit had no choice and took the Mariner to England. A Sailor
split the raft, tied the chips with braces - it turned out sieves-
Workshop on fairy tale therapy
ka. Coming out of Keith's belly, the Sailor thrust the grate down his throat
Kit. Since then, Kit can only eat small food. And Rybka,
thinking that Kit would be offended by her, she swam deep into the bottom and
buried itself in the silt ... Here is such an instructive story.
Usually we begin the discussion with answers to the question: what is this fairy tale?> Further, we recall that in fairy tales it is always encrypted
We have found a lot of important information for us and we are starting the game. Its essence is as follows. On the example of heroes, a fairy tale
wants to teach us something important and we have to guess -
what exactly. Take Keith, for example. By the way, how do you think-
those, did the story end well for him? Many children (and
even adults) say that the Sailor treated Kit badly:
Is it human to insert a lattice into the throat? please, - we ask the guys, - what would happen to Kit,
if the Sailor hadn't inserted a grate into his throat?> earlier, fish>, they answer. ate all the fish, because that is why he had to "try-
a man ">. The guys think and answer: he would die of hunger>. put a lattice in Kit's throat, poor Kit would die of hunger, -
we repeat thoughtfully. - Strange, how is it, at first
an unpleasant event that turned out to be vital for Keith?
What did the fairy tale want to teach us?>
The most important thing for us is to create a situation in which the child
nok can think about the meaning and ambiguity of the situation
tion. At this moment, the child learns the philosophy of life: there is no one
important events, even a seemingly unpleasant situation can
after a while turn into a blessing. Some reading now
these lines can say, is it not too early for a child to think about
such things, does he understand it? Maybe he doesn't understand
therefore, it is important for us to explain to children in what specific lives
In real situations, they can use this fabulous lesson.
they said that you were offended; you may be angry with the offender,
figured out how to repay him. We remembered such situations
tion? Now let's try to use our ska
a sharp lesson: the whale offended by the Sailor received a new one for
yourself the ability to get food. Think, and what is the possibility
you received the benefit from your abuser. Answer this question
not easy, especially if it was very painful. But the tale of us
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teaches that there are no only bad events. Some offenders
ki help us think about what we are failing,
that we do not know how or we do badly, or we are friends with the wrong person, or ...>
So a fabulous lesson came to real life and sent re-
benka on the way to awareness of the events taking place with him. resno, but why did the Sailor make and insert this grille, after all, he already
ended up at home?> If we did not talk with the children about the consequences
for Keith this action of the Sailor, then many children can answer that
The sailor inserted a grate into Keith's throat to punish him. In our
situation, it turns out that there is concern behind the punishment.
Now we can remember if there were situations in our life
when there was concern behind the punishment. So gradually,
we will come to an explanation of those actions of parents who are not
understandable or offend the child. And he will get the opportunity to not-
just to speak out your resentment or anger, but also to comprehend the situation
tion in a new way using fabulous lessons... On the other side,
The sailor performed the action we are analyzing, because
little about the future. In the future, he could go to sea again and
meet the man-eating whale. This, of course, was not included in
his plans. Besides. The sailor was interested in breeding
fish, and this would be difficult in the presence of a fish-eating whale.
Finally, he thought about Keith's future. you would call a person who thinks about the consequences of his
actions?> Smart, good, wise - children usually say.
And we can introduce a new concept -.
This is the one who sees not only what is near, but also what is in the distance.
noble, and when they were farsighted parents, teachers>.
This is not an easy task for an adult either, but it is very important for
formation of the child's self-concept. man, therefore, is also NON-DISTINCTIVE. Who do we have from
heroes of the tale was short-sighted and when? .. What does this lead to
lo?> Probably, our main task is to put the question like this,
so that it stimulates thought, and not just a test for
memorization. In the future, if we notice negative manifestations
behavior of the child, then we can always turn to fairy-tale
new heroes: You do not find anything in common between what is happening now
and what the fairy tale warned and taught us about?
Luista>. Of course, this is far from all the meanings of the story about Keith,
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Sailor and Rybka. This is just one example of how
the principle of understanding the relationship between the meaning of a fairy-tale situation and re-
real life. I would like to believe that many parents, teachers and
psychologists not only read fairy tales to their children, but also together
reflect on them. After all, it often becomes
is a shrush in the hands of circumstances ... So, fairy tale therapy-
it is also a process of objectification problem situations.
Objectification of problem situations ... What is behind this, on
at first glance, a complex phrase? What's going on inside
person? And is everything possible? Probably expensive
my colleagues, in your practice there have been many cases when you
treated with acute mental pain. How to objectify
I lose a loved one, misfortunes that have fallen. Of such
there are more and more questions in our life.
However, the analysis of the early childhood experience is clearly not enough
exactly when a person obsessively asks himself and you the question - for what?
Let's turn to fairy tales... Why exactly on the main
hero so many trials? And what happens in re-
the result of all the adventures and misadventures? As a rule, the patient
you answer this question:. get stronger? After all, he just acted according to the situation!> - you can
say you. , - the patient can answer.
This statement already contains the key to accepting trauma.
situation, and the patient suggested this key to himself. Here
amazing fairy-tale therapeutic paradox! Man drawing-
going to a psychologist for help, at first glance, is in
weaker position. However, the tale teaches that trials are given
only to the strongest. To someone who can withstand them, realize
use for good. The test is given by strength. So who is
is weak here? Understanding this simple truth often produces
psychotherapeutic effect: a person suddenly
knows the source of strength within himself. It remains to be seen what and how
to do, but it is already clear - I CAN. And in this case, the fairy tale
piya - the process of activating resources, potential of the individual.
For many, fairy tales are associated with magic. And what is a wave
shaking? Paracelsus also asked himself this question. Magic
the world, according to Paracelsus, is an invisible spiritual analogue of the
dim nature, inhabited by a host of curious creatures,
called by nature spirits. Paracelsus divided them into four
groups in accordance with the elements by which they are generated and
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in which they dwell. The spirits of the earth are gnomes, the spirits of water are undi-
us, the spirits of fire are salamanders, the spirits of the air are sylphs. Paracelsus
taught that spirits are actually living creatures, according to
shaped like human beings. It is difficult for people to
know the magical world of natural spirits due to underdevelopment
our senses, unable to penetrate beyond the gross elements
cops. Behind these reflections is the idea of spirituality.
the surrounding world. Many people point out that it is on the
kind of enveloped in a sense of magic and they feel happy
stealthy. Is it about communication with nature spirits here?
speech? .. Anyway, the idea of Living Nature gives us a rich
tools for personal development. If we tell re-.
benku about amazing little invisible creatures that live
in every tree, bush, flower, blade of grass, unless you wish
mindlessly breaking branches and picking flowers? On the other hand, the world
plants (related to the spirits of the earth) was created for a loving person
adorable. Plants gladly give their fruits to him, but not
The perfume can be transferred to another plant. If the child will
know that every stream, lake, river has its own undine, wants
Does he want to pollute the water? After all, spirits cannot live in dirty water
and she will be dead. If the child knows that even in
a small fire lives a salamander, he wants to play with
matches, mindlessly scattering frightened salamanders around the house?
If the child knows that small strengths live in the air
fe and sylphs, bringing good dreams and smiles, really
will it pollute the air with suffocating gases in the future?
In this aspect, fairy tale therapy is a process of ecological
education and upbringing of the child.
But magic is not only associated with the inhabitants of the magic
the world. It is associated with creativity, creation, faith in good
strength and new opportunities. However, it must be remembered that the wave
The vibrancy is often invisible to the eye, but palpable in the heart ...
The little girl received a magic scarf as a gift,
who can transform her into whoever she wishes. She is right there
wants to turn into a horse. turn into a horse, but you remember that if after turning
if you look in the mirror, will you see there not a horse, but yourself?>
- the child pulls in disappointment. horses you will enter the kitchen, what will happen to grandmother?> 13
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rock will fall>. mo? .. Of course, so as not to frighten people close to you. But inside
yourself, turning into a horse, you will acquire its strength, beauty,
endurance. How will these qualities come in handy in your life?>
So, magic is also transformation. In a fairy tale -
real, but outwardly not visible to everyone in life. Magic pro
comes from within us, gradually improving the world around us. IN
in this sense, fairy tale therapy is a process of improving the inner
nature and the world around.
Of course, fairy tale therapy is also environmental therapy, especially
fight in a fabulous setting in which the potential
social parts of the personality, something unrealized, can
a dream to be commercialized; and most importantly, a feeling appears in her
security and aroma of Mystery ...
Fairytale people have always been engaged in it. True, they called
it is different. Today we distinguish four stages in the development of fairy-tale
therapy. It is noteworthy that none of the stages we distinguish
the pov did not end, giving way to a new one. Therefore, each stage
marked the beginning of a certain process.
The first stage of fairy tale therapy is oral folk art.
Its beginning is lost in the mists of time, but the process of oral (and later
her and written) creativity continues to this day.
The second stage of fairy tale therapy is the collection and study of sk
zok and myths. Study of myths and fairy tales in the psychological,
deep aspect associated with the names of K.-G. Jung, M.-L. von Franz,
B. Bettelheim, V. Propp and others. It is pleasant to note that both
the terminology of psychoanalysis is based on myths ...
The understanding of the hidden meaning of fairy tales and myths continues to this day.
The third stage is psychotechnical. Probably not a single one
educational, psychological and psychotherapeutic technology
wherever the technique is used. Modern
Many practical approaches apply the tale as a technique, as
a reason for psychodiagnostics, correction and personality development.
The fourth stage is integrative. This stage is associated with the form
world of the concept of Complex Fairytale Therapy, with spirits
approach to fairy tales, with an understanding of fairy tale therapy as a
generic, organic to human perception of the
nutritional system, proven by many generations for
their ancestors.
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Today, fairy tale therapy synthesizes many of the achievements of psycho
logic, pedagogy, psychotherapy and philosophy of different cultures -
all this in a fabulous form, in the form of a metaphor. you just can't figure it out to return to yourself!> - the fairy tale jokes
rapists. One could call fairytale therapy her>, but, you must admit, it does not sound so beautiful and close.
In the fairytale therapeutic process at the moment,
there are five types of fairy tales, which are constructed in accordance
vii with the current situation and are presented under different terms>: analysis, storytelling, writing, rewriting, puppet-
therapy, image therapy, drawing, psychodynamic meditations
tions, staging fairy tales in the sandbox and much more (and this is not
fairy tale therapy itself, but its fascinating context).
So what is fairy tale therapy? Contemplation and disclosure
internal and outside world, comprehension of the past, the model-
shaping the future, the process of selecting each client his own
Benny tale ... The Process of Cognition in the most consonant with our
Soul figurative. Perhaps it is for this that many
What wisdom of mankind sent us the Fairy Tale? ..
HOW A FAIRY TALE LEARNED TO DRINK
Tatiana Bolshakova
Once upon a time there was a Fairy Tale. She had fun, because next to
always kind and faithful friends were. Together they could dare
rejoice and rejoice; and sometimes it was scary for them, but
it always ended well.
And then one day I met the Man's Tale.
- Do you love people? - he asked.
“Yes,” she replied. She really loved everyone.
- Then come with me, and I will teach you to help people,
rid them of disease.
- Can you take your girlfriends with you?
- You can, - the Man allowed. And then she agreed:
After all, it's not scary anywhere with friends.
The man brought the company to a large, beautiful house. There was
many people, and they all listened for a long, long time to fairy tales, stories,
anecdotes, parables. Then people started talking hotly about something not
very understandable, and they began to pronounce various learned words.
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Only the Tale understood that weird people gather from it
with girlfriends some sense to extract and various drugs de-
to eat.
She was frightened at first, but did not run away: friends are nearby - ashamed,
and it is curious how this meaning will be extracted. And people like
I wanted to be able not to get sick, poor people. After all, when most
well, I want others to live happily too.
And the life of the Fairy Tale began at the Institute of Fairy Tale Therapy.
At first, indeed, many things seemed strange. After all, she
used to that, listening to fairy tales, everyone smiles, but here they listened
seriously, then argued for a long, long time, sometimes even frowned,
but as they walked away from her, everyone spoke exactly.
Zinkevich Tatiana - Doctor of Psychology, Director of the St. Petersburg Institute of Fairy Tale Therapy. Graduated from the Faculty of Psychology of Leningrad state university... The author of the method of Complex Fairy Tale Therapy. Author of a number of monographs on fairy tale therapy.
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ON PRACTICE
T. D. ZINKEVICH-EVSTIGNEEVA
PRACTICE ON
FAIRY TREATMENT
O
SPEECH
PUBLISHER
The guide to fairy tale therapy is addressed to psychologists, educators,
psychotherapists, doctors, philologists, parents and all those who feel
there is a closeness to the fairy-tale genre. In the popular form of storytelling-
it is about what types of fairy tales exist, how they can be
use in the process of psychological, pedagogical and educational
tel work; discusses techniques for creating specialized
fairy tales that help learning, remove inadequate emotional
manifestations, correcting behavior and contributing to the
FDI in acute stressful situations. The edition is textbook
character: fairy tales are given for practical work with commentary
and recommendations for use.
Probably, there is no person who would not like fairy tales. Those of
us who are not interested in the classic versions of fabulous
stories, watching action films, horror films, reading detective stories,
romance novels and fantasy. But what is it if not modern
fairy tales?
People tend to share stories. To
to tell and listen to them, we are going to a festive
scrap, watch the show on TV.
The exchange of stories, like the exchange of life experiences, is natural
venous form of interaction between people. Therefore, we consider-
eat fairy tale therapy - a natural form of communication and transmission
experience, an organic system of educating new generations.
In fairytale therapy seminars, we explore fairytale
times, we try to reveal the secrets of fairy-tale composition. And often, in
the first day of classes, you have to hear the request of the participants:
Usually we answer: you write the best fairy tales and choose yourself>. at least landmarks!> - ask the participants of the seminar. In response to
this request you hold in the hands of our leadership. This book
will be useful for those who prefer to work with ready-made material
riyal, and those who like to write fairy tales themselves.
So, we have an exciting journey through a variety of
different fairy tales. Something can make you smile, something under-
will push you to think, but something will encourage creativity.
Many of the tales cited here are written by people who
who have never done this before, and nevertheless, on one
breath created a unique fairy tale story. May be
and you, dear reader, will be inspired by this experience and trust
those on paper the fairy tale of your Soul? ..
Workshop on fairy tale therapy
You will learn how to work with artistic fairy tales; how
independently create stories that help children learn and
harmoniously change behavior; how to use fairy tales in
bot with situations in which, at first glance, psycho
the log is powerless ... But, most importantly, the Tale living inside you,
will unfold before you the treasures of your soul.
CHAPTER 1
GENERAL REGULATIONS
WORKS WITH FAIRY TALES
TALE THERAPY AS AN EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM,
ORGANIC INNER HUMAN NATURE
Recently, the term has become increasingly popular.
special and popular editions. True, there is also
(a term that, for some reason, is
used by teachers), but it is not known whether there is between these
there is a fundamental difference in terms. perhaps
sounds prettier.
I remember one incident. At the bank we were stopped during
armed guards. They took a close look at our
documents and suddenly asked in surprise: fairy tale therapy? What is it?> I prepared to explain
took more air into her lungs, but the guards did not wait for an answer.
that asked:.
Yes, probably in our urbanized world, saturated
information and stress, the Soul asks for Tales ...
The soul asks for a fairy tale or that special state that alone
they call it Happiness, others - the expectation of a Miracle, others - Feel-
childhood, the fourth - ...
So what is fairy tale therapy? The first thing that comes in
head - treatment with fairy tales. Knowledge has been passed down from time immemorial
through parables, stories, fairy tales, legends, myths. And here
treatment? Does knowledge multiply sorrow or does it heal the Soul? On the
this question, probably, is and will be many answers. Knowledge is hidden
war, deep, not only about yourself, but also about the world around,
definitely heals. And it is today, at the end of the millennium, to
people are intuitively drawn to him. Reread and interpret
The Bible, they are looking for hidden meaning in fairy tales, legends and myths,
there may also be in order to rediscover what is in the depths
souls have long been known? .. Therefore, when we talk about the fact that
fairy tale therapy is a treatment with fairy tales, we mean combining
open with the client the knowledge that lives in the soul
and are currently psychotherapeutic.
Some people think that fairy tale therapy is a me-
tod. Yes and no. in the sense that it is addressed to
to a living creative creative open mind in a person - yes. in the sense that it is limited
by age - no. her, - sarcastically remarked to us, without understanding the essence, the
Giver of the board of a large Latvian university. - Fairy tales
after all, only for children!> Excuse me, so what are fairy tales?
If - a figment of the imagination, then why are modern detective tales
tives, thrillers, fantasy, love and adventure romances
us? But adults read them! If ancient knowledge is encrypted-
new in attractive images and intriguing situations, then
is this information only for children? We believe that the tale
ka is. Each layer has its own meaning. When we
we read a fairy tale, follow a fascinating plot, our lack of consciousness
worn already and knocked out
Heavens for itself. That is, that, that meaning,
which is most in tune with the worldview at the moment,
one that can answer an internal question. In that
the secret of fairy tales - at any age in them
you can discover something intimate and exciting.
Therefore, fairy tale therapy is a process of searching for meaning,
encryption of knowledge about the world and the system of relationships in it.
The process of deciphering knowledge ... Indeed, when
you can look at a fairy tale from different angles, at different levels
yah, it turns out that fairy tales contain information
about the dynamics of life processes. In fairy tales you can find half
a list of human problems and figurative ways to solve them
sheniya. Listening to fairy tales in childhood, a person accumulates in the unconscious
the body is a kind of symbolic. This
can be activated if necessary, rather than
if there will be a situation, it will remain passive. In the process of psycho-
logical counseling we refer to as a vital
the patient's experience and his fairy-tale situations>. This often allows you to find the right solution.
A fairy tale can give a symbolic warning about how
the situation will unfold. But do we always have ears to
hear him? As a rule, the meaning of events is clear only in the background.
number and then an adult. Therefore, fairy tale therapy for
children is connected, first of all, with the awareness of the meaning of fabulous events
and their relationship to real life situations. If a child with
early age will begin to realize, respond to
question:, correlate answers with
his behavior, he will become an active user of his
... And I want to believe it will be wiser
eye and creative. By the way, this is the answer to those who criticized us
because we are children from reality to fairy tales. Vice versa,
fairy tale therapy is the process of forming a connection between fairy tale
events and behavior in real life. This is a process
transfer of fabulous meanings into reality.
For example. The guys and I read and analyze the tale of R. Kip-
linga about Keith. Its plot is as follows. There was a whale in the ocean and
he had a big gulp. And indiscriminately, he ate every time
fish, opening its big mouth every time. He ate and
herring, and herring's aunt, and beluga, and stellate sturgeon, every time
doing AM, AM, AM. Finally, the moment came when he ate all
fish. And he was starving for a while. However, it turned out that still
a little thorny Fish survived. She swam beside
with whale's ear. She said to him: is there a man?> Kit did not know who it was, so he asked for a
go to him a couple. But Rybka explained to him that a person is painful.
shoy, and it is enough to eat one to stay full for a long time.
She undertook to show Keith the site of the shipwreck. Meanwhile
the shipwrecked Sailor was sitting on the raft,
diving into the water and smoking a pipe. Keith, as always, without thinking
swallowed the Sailor along with the raft, pipe and braces. Mo-
The ryak in Kit's belly began to dance, which caused the latter to fear
hiccups. Keith asked Rybka for advice on how to get rid of the iko-
you. And I got the answer - to release the Sailor. hungry!> - Keith was indignant. or be hungry>, - answered Rybka. Keith chose the latter
and opened his mouth. But the Sailor refused to go out. Only if Keith
will take him to the shores of England, the sailor will leave the poor man alone. Have
Kit had no choice and took the Mariner to England. A Sailor
split the raft, tied the chips with braces - it turned out sieves-
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ka. Coming out of Keith's belly, the Sailor thrust the grate down his throat
Kit. Since then, Kit can only eat small food. And Rybka,
thinking that Kit would be offended by her, she swam deep into the bottom and
buried itself in the silt ... Here is such an instructive story.
Usually we begin the discussion with answers to the question: what is this fairy tale?> Further, we recall that in fairy tales it is always encrypted
We have found a lot of important information for us and we are starting the game. Its essence is as follows. On the example of heroes, a fairy tale
wants to teach us something important and we have to guess -
what exactly. Take Keith, for example. By the way, how do you think-
those, did the story end well for him? Many children (and
even adults) say that the Sailor treated Kit badly:
Is it human to insert a lattice into the throat? please, - we ask the guys, - what would happen to Kit,
if the Sailor hadn't inserted a grate into his throat?> earlier, fish>, they answer. ate all the fish, because that is why he had to "try-
a man ">. The guys think and answer: he would die of hunger>. put a lattice in Kit's throat, poor Kit would die of hunger, -
we repeat thoughtfully. - Strange, how is it, at first
an unpleasant event that turned out to be vital for Keith?
What did the fairy tale want to teach us?>
The most important thing for us is to create a situation in which the child
nok can think about the meaning and ambiguity of the situation
tion. At this moment, the child learns the philosophy of life: there is no one
important events, even a seemingly unpleasant situation can
after a while turn into a blessing. Some reading now
these lines can say, is it not too early for a child to think about
such things, does he understand it? Maybe he doesn't understand
therefore, it is important for us to explain to children in what specific lives
In real situations, they can use this fabulous lesson.
they said that you were offended; you may be angry with the offender,
figured out how to repay him. We remembered such situations
tion? Now let's try to use our ska
a sharp lesson: the whale offended by the Sailor received a new one for
yourself the ability to get food. Think, and what is the possibility
you received the benefit from your abuser. Answer this question
not easy, especially if it was very painful. But the tale of us
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teaches that there are no only bad events. Some offenders
ki help us think about what we are failing,
that we do not know how or we do badly, or we are friends with the wrong person, or ...>
So a fabulous lesson came into real life and sent re-
benka on the way to awareness of the events taking place with him. resno, but why did the Sailor make and insert this grille, after all, he already
ended up at home?> If we did not talk with the children about the consequences
for Keith this action of the Sailor, then many children can answer that
The sailor inserted a grate into Keith's throat to punish him. In our
situation, it turns out that there is concern behind the punishment.
Now we can remember if there were situations in our life
when there was concern behind the punishment. So gradually,
we will come to an explanation of those actions of parents who are not
understandable or offend the child. And he will get the opportunity to not-
just to speak out your resentment or anger, but also to comprehend the situation
tion in a new way using fabulous lessons. On the other side,
The sailor performed the action we are analyzing, because
little about the future. In the future, he could go to sea again and
meet the man-eating whale. This, of course, was not included in
his plans. Besides. The sailor was interested in breeding
fish, and this would be difficult in the presence of a fish-eating whale.
Finally, he thought about Keith's future. you would call a person who thinks about the consequences of his
actions?> Smart, good, wise - children usually say.
And we can introduce a new concept -.
This is the one who sees not only what is near, but also what is in the distance.
noble, and when they were farsighted parents, teachers>.
This is not an easy task for an adult either, but it is very important for
formation of the child's self-concept. man, therefore, is also NON-DISTINCTIVE. Who do we have from
heroes of the tale was short-sighted and when? .. What does this lead to
lo?> Probably, our main task is to put the question like this,
so that it stimulates thought, and not just a test for
memorization. In the future, if we notice negative manifestations
behavior of the child, then we can always turn to fairy-tale
new heroes: You do not find anything in common between what is happening now
and what the fairy tale warned and taught us about?
Luista>. Of course, this is far from all the meanings of the story about Keith,
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Sailor and Rybka. This is just one example of how
the principle of understanding the relationship between the meaning of a fairy-tale situation and re-
real life. I would like to believe that many parents, teachers and
psychologists not only read fairy tales to their children, but also together
reflect on them. After all, it often becomes
is a shrush in the hands of circumstances ... So, fairy tale therapy-
it is also a process of objectifying problem situations.
Objectification of problem situations ... What is behind this, on
at first glance, a complex phrase? What's going on inside
person? And is everything possible? Probably expensive
my colleagues, in your practice there have been many cases when you
treated with acute mental pain. How to objectify
I lose a loved one, misfortunes that have fallen. Of such
there are more and more questions in our life.
However, the analysis of early childhood experience is clearly insufficient.
exactly when a person obsessively asks himself and you the question - for what?
Let's turn to fairy tales. Why exactly on the main
hero so many trials? And what happens in re-
the result of all the adventures and misadventures? As a rule, the patient
you answer this question:. get stronger? After all, he just acted according to the situation!> - you can
say you. , - the patient can answer.
This statement already contains the key to accepting trauma.
situation, and the patient suggested this key to himself. Here
amazing fairy-tale therapeutic paradox! Man drawing-
going to a psychologist for help, at first glance, is in
weaker position. However, the tale teaches that trials are given
only to the strongest. To someone who can withstand them, realize
use for good. The test is given by strength. So who is
is weak here? Understanding this simple truth often produces
psychotherapeutic effect: a person suddenly
knows the source of strength within himself. It remains to be seen what and how
to do, but it is already clear - I CAN. And in this case, the fairy tale
piya - the process of activating resources, potential of the individual.
For many, fairy tales are associated with magic. And what is a wave
shaking? Paracelsus also asked himself this question. Magic
the world, according to Paracelsus, is an invisible spiritual analogue of the
dim nature, inhabited by a host of curious creatures,
called by nature spirits. Paracelsus divided them into four
groups in accordance with the elements by which they are generated and
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in which they dwell. The spirits of the earth are gnomes, the spirits of water are undi-
us, the spirits of fire are salamanders, the spirits of the air are sylphs. Paracelsus
taught that spirits are actually living creatures, according to
shaped like human beings. It is difficult for people to
know the magical world of natural spirits due to underdevelopment
our senses, unable to penetrate beyond the gross elements
cops. Behind these reflections is the idea of spirituality.
the surrounding world. Many people point out that it is on the
kind of enveloped in a sense of magic and they feel happy
stealthy.
T. D. Zinkevich-Evstigneeva
PRACTICE ON FAIRY TREATMENT
Publishing house "Rech"
St. Petersburg
T. D. Zinkevich-Evstigneeva
Workshop on fairy tale therapy. - SPb .: OOO "Rech",
2000 .-- 310s. ISBN 5-9268-0022-6
The guide to fairy tale therapy is addressed to psychologists, educators,
psychotherapists, doctors, philologists, parents and all those who
feels close to the fairytale genre. In popular form
tells about what types of fairy tales exist, how
they can be used in the process of psychological, pedagogical and
educational work; the techniques of creating
specialized fairy tales that help learning, filming
inappropriate emotional manifestations, correcting behavior and
conducive to therapy in acute stressful situations. Edition
is textbook in nature: fairy tales are given for practical
FROM THE EDITOR
Probably, there is no person who would not like fairy tales. Those of
us who are not interested in the classic versions of fabulous
stories, watching action films, horror films, reading detective stories,
romance novels and fantasy. But what is it if not modern
People tend to share stories. To
to tell and listen to them, we are going for a festive
table, watching the show on TV.
Sharing stories, like sharing life experiences,
a natural form of interaction between people. That's why we
we consider fairy tale therapy to be a natural form of communication and
transfer of experience, an organic system of educating new
generations.
In fairytale therapy seminars, we explore fairytale
images, we try to reveal the secrets of fairy-tale composition. And often, in
the first day of classes, you have to hear the request of the participants:
"Give us fairy tales to work with!" We usually answer: “The most
you will write and choose the best fairy tales yourself. " “But give us,
at least landmarks! " - ask the participants of the seminar. In response to
this request you hold in the hands of our leadership. This book
will be useful for those who prefer to work with ready-made
material, and those who like to write fairy tales themselves.
So, we have an exciting journey through
various fairy tales. Something can make you smile, something
something will push you to think, and something will prompt you to be creative.
Many of the tales given here are written by people
who have never done this before, and nevertheless, on
created a unique fairy tale story in one breath. To be
maybe you, dear reader, will be inspired by this experience and
entrust the fairy tale of your Soul to paper? ..
You will learn how to work with artistic fairy tales; how
independently create stories that help children learn and
harmoniously change behavior; how to use fairy tales in
dealing with situations in which, at first glance,
the psychologist is powerless ... But, most importantly, the Tale that lives inside
You, will unfold before you the treasures of your soul.
GENERAL REGULATIONS
WORKS WITH FAIRY TALES
TALE THERAPY AS AN EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM,
ORGANIC INNER HUMAN NATURE
Recently, the term "fairytale therapy" is more and more often used, -
special and popular editions. True, there is also
"Fairytale correction" (a term that for some reason
teachers like to use), but it is not known whether there is between these
there is a fundamental difference in terms. "Fairytale therapy", perhaps
sounds prettier.
I remember one incident. At the bank we were stopped
armed guards. They took a close look at our
documents and suddenly asked in surprise: “What institute are you from?
fairy tale therapy? And what is it?" I got ready to explain
took more air into her lungs, but the guards did not wait
answer, they asked: "And please treat us with fairy tales."
Yes, probably in our urbanized world, saturated
information and stress, the Soul asks for Tales ...
The soul asks for a fairy tale or that special state that alone
called Happiness, others - the expectation of a Miracle, still others -
The feeling of childhood, the fourth - ...
So what is fairy tale therapy? The first thing that comes in
head - treatment with fairy tales. Knowledge has been passed down from time immemorial
through parables, stories, fairy tales, legends, myths. And here
treatment? Does knowledge multiply sorrow or does it heal the Soul? On the
this question, probably, is and will be many answers. Knowledge
intimate, deep, not only about yourself, but also about the environment
the world will definitely heal. And just today, at the end
For millennia, people are intuitively drawn to it. Reread and
interpret the Bible, look for hidden meaning in fairy tales,
legends and myths, mo- there may also be in order to rediscover what is in the depths
souls have long been known? .. Therefore, when we talk about the fact that
fairy tale therapy is a treatment with fairy tales, we mean
jointly with the client, the discovery of the knowledge that lives in
soul and are currently psychotherapeutic.
Some people think that fairy tale therapy is "childish"
method. Yes and no. "Childish" in the sense that it is addressed to
living creative creative open “childish
the beginning ”in a person - yes. "Childish" in the sense that he
limited in age - no. “Yes, you would name your method
bikotheraii-she, - sarcastically remarked to us, not understanding
in fact, the chairman of the board of a large Latvian university.
Fairy tales are only for children! " Excuse me, so what is it
fairy tales? If - a figment of imagination, then why not fairy tales
modern detectives, thrillers, fantasy, love and
adventure novels? But adults read them! If
ancient knowledge encoded in attractive images and
intriguing situations, then is this information only for
children? We believe that a fairy tale is a "puff cake". IN
each layer has its own meaning. When we read a fairy tale, we follow
fascinating plot, our unconscious is already
"Sniffs" the "puff pie of meanings" and chooses the most
"Tasty" for yourself. That is, that "layer", the meaning that
the most consonant with the worldview at the moment, the one
which can answer the inner question. This is the secret
"Eternal youth" of fairy tales - at any age in them you can
discover something intimate and exciting.
Therefore, fairy tale therapy is a process of searching for meaning,
deciphering knowledge about the world and the system of relationships in
German The process of deciphering knowledge ... Indeed, when
you begin to consider the tale from different points, at different
levels, it turns out that fairy tales contain
information about the dynamics of life processes. In fairy tales
you can find a complete list of human problems and figurative
ways to solve them. Listening to fairy tales as a child, man
accumulates in the unconscious a certain symbolic "bank
life situations". This "bank" can be activated in
if necessary, and there will be no situation - it will remain in
passive. In the process of psychological counseling, we
referring to both life experience the patient and his
fabulous "bank of life situations". This often allows
find the right solution.
A fairy tale can give a symbolic warning about how
the situation will unfold. But do we always have ears to
hear him? As a rule, the meaning of events is clear only in the background.
number and then "advanced" adults. Therefore, fairy tale therapy for
children is associated, first of all, with the awareness of the meaning of fabulous
events and their relationship with real life situations. If
a child from an early age will begin to realize "fairy lessons",
answer the question: "What does the fairy tale teach you and me?"
answers with his behavior, then he will become an active user
your "bank of life situations". And I want to believe there will be more
wise and creative. By the way, this is the answer to those who criticized
us for taking children away from reality and into fairy tales.
On the contrary, fairy tale therapy is a process of forming a connection
between fabulous events and behavior in real
life. This is the process of transferring fabulous meanings into
reality.
For example. The guys and I read and analyze the fairy tale
R.Kipling about Keith. Its plot is as follows. There was a whale in the ocean
and he had a big gulp. And indiscriminately, he ate all
different fish, each time opening its big mouth. He ate and
herring, and herring's aunt, and beluga, and stellate sturgeon, every time
doing AM, AM, AM Finally, the moment came when he ate all
fish. And he was starving for a while. However, it turned out that still
a little thorny Fish survived. She swam beside
with whale's ear. She told him: “Listen, did you eat when-
Anything human? " Keith didn't know who it was, so he asked
bring a couple to him. But Rybka explained to him that the man
large, and it is enough to eat one to stay long
well-fed. She undertook to show Keith the site of the shipwreck. Topics
time shipwrecked sailor sat on a raft,
dangling his legs into the water and smoking a pipe. Keith, as always, without thinking
swallowed the Sailor along with the raft, pipe and braces.
The sailor in Keith's belly began to dance, which caused the latter
terrible hiccups. Keith asked Rybka for advice on how to get rid of
hiccups. And I got the answer - to release the Sailor. “But then I
I'll stay hungry! " - Keith was indignant. “You choose what is best
Hiccup or be hungry, ”Rybka replied. Keith chose
the latter and opened his mouth. But the Sailor refused to go out. Only
if Keith takes him to the shores of England, the Sailor will leave the poor man in
rest. Keith had no choice and took the Mariner to England. BUT
The sailor split the raft, tied the chips with braces - it turned out
sieves ka. Coming out of Keith's belly, the Sailor thrust the grate down his throat
Kit. Since then, Kit can only eat small food. And Rybka,
thinking that Kit would be offended by her, she swam deep into the bottom and
buried itself in the silt ... Here is such an instructive story.
We usually start the discussion by answering the question: “Oh
a lot of important information is encrypted and we start the game
"Fabulous Lessons". Its essence is as follows. On the example of heroes
the fairy tale wants to teach us something important and we must
guess what exactly. Take Keith, for example. By the way,
do you think the story ended well for him?
Many children (and even adults) say that the Sailor is bad
dealt with Keith: is it human to insert into the throat
lattice? “Please tell me,” we ask the guys, “what
what would have happened to Kit if the Sailor hadn't put it down his throat
grate? " “I would eat fish, as before,” they answer. “But in
the tale says that he ate all the fish, because that is why he and
I had to “try a man.” The guys think and
answer: "then Keith would starve to death." “That is, it turns out that
if the Sailor hadn't put a grate in Kit's throat, poor Kit
I would die of hunger, - we repeat thoughtfully. - It's strange how
so, at first glance, an unpleasant event turned out to be vital
important to China? What did the fairy tale want to teach us? "
The most important thing for us is to create a situation in which
the child can reflect on the meaning and ambiguity
situations. At this moment, the child learns the philosophy of life: no
unambiguous events, even a seemingly unpleasant situation can
after a while turn into a blessing. Some reading now
these lines can say, is it not too early for a child to think about
with such things, does he understand it? Maybe he doesn't understand
therefore, it is important for us to explain to children in what specific
life situations they can use this fabulous
lesson. “Guys, there have probably been times in your life when you
felt that you were offended; you maybe mad at
offender, thought about how to repay him. Remembered
such situations? Now let's try to use
our fabulous lesson: the whale offended by the Sailor received
a new opportunity to get food. Think, and which one
the opportunity you received from your abuser. Reply to this
the question is not easy, especially if it was very painful. But
fairy tale us
teaches that there are no only bad events. Some
offenders help us reflect on what we do not have
it turns out that we do not know how or we do it badly, or with the wrong
are friends, or ... "
So a fabulous lesson came into real life and directed
the child on the way to awareness of the events taking place with him.
“I wonder why the Sailor made and inserted this grating, because he and
so ended up at home? " If we have not spoken to the children about
the consequences for Keith of this action of the Sailor, then many children
may reply that the Sailor had inserted a grate into Kit's throat so that
punish him. In our situation, it turns out that the punishment
care is hidden.
Now we can remember if there were in our life
situations where the punishment hid concern. So
gradually, we will come to an explanation of those actions of the parents,
which are incomprehensible or offend the child. And he will receive
it is not easy to talk about your resentment or anger, but also
to comprehend the situation in a new way, using fabulous lessons. WITH
on the other hand, the Sailor performed the action we are analyzing,
because I thought about the future. In the future, he could again
go to sea and meet the man-eating whale. This is,
naturally, it was not part of his plans. In addition, the Sailor was
interested in fish farming, which would be difficult,
in the presence of a fish-eating whale. Finally, he thought about the future.
Kita. “Guys, what would you and I call a person who
thinking about the consequences of his actions? " Smart, good,
wise - children usually say. And we can introduce a new one
concept - "FAR-VIEW". This is the one who sees not only
what is near, but also what is in the distance. “Now guys, let's
remember the situations when you were far-sighted, and when you were
far-sighted parents, teachers ”. This is not an easy task and
for an adult, but it is very important for the formation of I-
baby concept. “If there is a visionary person, then
there is also NON-DISTINCTIVE. Which of the heroes of the fairy tale was
short-sighted and when? .. What did it lead to? " Probably our
the main task is to put the question in such a way that it prompts
reflection, and not just was a test of memorization. IN
further, if we notice negative manifestations of behavior in
child, we can always turn to fairytale heroes:
“Do you remember Kit (Rybka, etc.) from our history? You do not
you find nothing in common between what is happening now and what
What did the fairy tale warn and teach us about? .. Think, please. "
Of course, this is far from all the meanings of the story about Keith, Sailor and Rybka. This is just one example of how "works"
the principle of understanding the relationship between the meaning of a fairy-tale situation and
real life. I would like to believe that many parents, teachers and
psychologists not only read fairy tales to their children, but also together
reflect on them. After all, "a person who is not aware" often
becomes a toy in the hands of circumstances ... So, fairy tale therapy
It is also a process of objectifying problem situations.
Objectification of problem situations ... What is behind this, on
at first glance, a complex phrase? What's going on inside
person? And can everything be "objectified"? Probably expensive
Hey colleague, in your practice there have been many cases when you
treated with acute mental pain. How to objectify
the loss of a loved one, misfortunes that have fallen from "nowhere".
There are more and more such questions in our life.
more. However, the analysis of early childhood experience turns out to be clearly
it is not enough when a person obsessively asks himself and you a question -
for what? Let's turn to fairy tales. Why exactly on
Is there so many trials for the protagonist? And what
happens as a result of all the adventures and misadventures? How
as a rule, patients answer this question: “It becomes
stronger. " “Did he want to get stronger? After all, he just acted on
situations! " - you may say. "This is how life turned out" -
the patient can answer. This statement already contains
the key to accepting the traumatic situation, and this key is the patient
suggested to himself. Here is an amazing fairy tale therapy
paradox! A person who turned to a psychologist for help, on
at first glance, it is in a weaker position. However, the tale
teaches that tests are given only to the strongest. To someone who
can withstand them, realize them, use them for good.
The test is given by strength. So who is weak here? Understanding
this simple truth often produces psychotherapeutic
effect: a "wounded" person suddenly realizes inside himself
source of strength. It is still unknown what and how to do, but it is already clear
I CAN. And in this case, fairy tale therapy is a process
activation of resources, potential of the individual. For many
fairy tales are associated with magic. What is magic? This
Paracelsus also asked himself the question. Wizarding world, according to
Paracelsus, this is an invisible spiritual analogue of the visible Nature,
populated by hosts of curious creatures called
natural spirits. Paracelsus divided them into four groups in
in accordance with the elements by which they are generated and
in which they dwell. Spirits of the earth - gnomes, spirits of water -
undines, fire spirits - salamanders, air spirits - sylphs.
Paracelsus taught that spirits are actually alive
creatures resembling human beings in shape.
It is difficult for people to know the magical world of natural spirits by virtue of
underdevelopment of our senses, unable to penetrate
limits of gross elements. There is an idea behind these reflections
spirituality of the surrounding world. Many people note
that it is in nature that they are covered by a sense of magic and they
feel happy. Is it about communicating with natural
spirits are we talking about here? .. Anyway, the idea of Living Nature
gives us a rich toolkit for personal development. If
we will tell your child about the amazing little invisible
creatures living in every tree, bush, flower, blade of grass,
will there be a desire to thoughtlessly break branches and pick flowers? WITH
on the other hand, the plant world (related to the spirits of the earth)
created for loving person... Plants are happy to give
his fruits, and invisible spirits can go to another
plant. If a child knows that in every stream, lake,
the river has its own undine, will he want to pollute the water? Indeed, in
spirits cannot live in dirty water and it will become dead. If
the child will know that even in a small fire he lives
salamander, he wants to play with matches, mindlessly
scattering frightened salamanders around the house? If the child will
know that little sylphs and sylphs live in the air,
bringing good dreams and smiles, will he really be in
to pollute the air with suffocating gases in the future?
In this aspect, fairy tale therapy is a process of ecological
education and upbringing of the child.
But magic is not only associated with the inhabitants of the magic
the world. It is associated with creativity, creation, faith in good
strength and new opportunities. However, it must be remembered that
magic is often invisible to the eye, but palpable in the heart ...
The little girl received a magic scarf as a gift,
who can transform her into whoever she wishes. She is right there
wants to turn into a horse. “It's fine what you want
turn into a horse, but you remember that if after
transformations look in the mirror, you will see not a horse there, but
myself?" "Why?" - the child pulls in disappointment. “Imagine if
in the form of a horse you will enter the kitchen, what will happen to your grandmother? " "She is in
obmo- rock will fall. " “Now you understand why the magic
invisible? .. Of course, so as not to frighten those close to you. But
inside yourself; turning into a horse, you will gain its strength,
beauty, endurance. And how will these come in handy in your life
quality? "
So, magic is also transformation. In a fairy tale -
real, but outwardly not visible to everyone in life. Magic
happens inside us, gradually improving the world around us.
In this sense, fairy tale therapy is a process of improvement
inner nature and the world around.
Of course, fairy tale therapy is also environmental therapy,
a special fabulous setting in which
potential parts of the personality, something unrealized,
a dream may materialize; and most importantly, it appears
the sense of security and the scent of Mystery ...
People have always been engaged in fairy tale therapy. True, they called
it is different. Today we distinguish four stages in the development of fairy-tale
therapy. It is noteworthy that none of the
stages did not end, giving way to a new one. Therefore each
stage marked the beginning of a certain process.
The first stage of fairy tale therapy is oral folk art.
Its beginning is lost in the mists of time, but the process of oral (a
later and written) creativity continues to this day.
The second stage of fairy tale therapy - collection and research
fairy tales and myths. Study of myths and tales in
psychological, deep aspect associated with the names of K.-G. Cabin boy,
M.-L. von Franz, B. Begtelheim, V. Propp and others. Nicely
note that the terminology of psychoanalysis is also based on myths ...
The process of learning the hidden meaning of fairy tales and myths
continues to this day.
The third stage is psychotechnical. Probably not a single one
educational, psychological and psychotherapeutic technology "
traffic police, in which the method "Compose a fairy tale" is not used.
Modern practical approaches apply the tale as
technique as an excuse for psychodiagnostics, correction and development
personality.
The fourth stage is integrative. This stage is associated with
the formation of the concept of Complex Fairytale Therapy, with
a spiritual approach to fairy tales, with an understanding of fairy tale therapy
as natural, organic to human
perception of the educational system, tested by many
generations of our ancestors.
Today fairy tale therapy synthesizes many achievements
psychology, pedagogy, psychotherapy and philosophy of various
cultures - all this is "packed" in a fabulous form, in a form
metaphors. “What you can’t think of to return to yourself!” -
fairy tale rapists joke. Could be called fairy tale therapy
"Metaphorotherapy", but, you see, it's not so beautiful and
sounds close.
In the fairytale therapy process at the moment
five types of fairy tales are used, which are constructed in
according to the current situation and are served under various
"Sauces": analysis, storytelling, writing, rewriting,
doll therapy, image therapy, drawing, psychodynamic
meditations, setting of fairy tales in the sandbox and much more (and
it is not fairy tale therapy itself, but its fascinating context).
So what is fairy tale therapy? Contemplation and disclosure
inner and outer world, comprehension of the past,
modeling of the future, selection process for each client
his special tale ... The process of Cognition in the most
a figurative form consonant with our Soul. Maybe exactly
for this, the centuries-old wisdom of mankind has been sent to us
HOW A FAIRY TALE LEARNED TO DOCTOR
Tatiana Bolshakova
Once upon a time there was a Fairy Tale. She had fun, because next to
always good and faithful friends. Together they could and
laugh and rejoice; and sometimes it was scary for them,
but it always ended well.
And then one day I met the Man's Tale.
Do you love people? - he asked.
Yes, she replied. She really loved everyone.
Then come with me and I will teach you how to help people,
rid them of disease.
Can you take your girlfriends with you?
You can, - the Man allowed. And then she agreed:
After all, it's not scary anywhere with friends.
The man brought the company to a large, beautiful house. There was
many people, and they all listened for a long, long time to fairy tales, stories,
anecdotes, parables. Then people started talking hotly about something not
very understandable, and they began to pronounce various learned words. I only understood the Tale that strange people gather from it
with girlfriends some sense to extract and different drugs
She was frightened at first, but did not run away: friends are nearby - ashamed,
and it is curious how this meaning will be extracted. Yes, and people
I wanted to help so that they would not get sick, poor people. After all, when most
well, I want others to live happily too.
And the life of the Fairy Tale began at the Institute of Fairy Tale Therapy.
At first, indeed, many things seemed strange. After all, she
used to that, listening to fairy tales, everyone smiles, but here they listened
seriously, then argued for a long, long time, sometimes even frowned,
but, leaving her, everyone said exactly: "Thank you!" And what
extracted from her, it also seemed to strangers, as if not from her
But then I realized the Tale, that people discovered a new one in it.
talent, and now she can not only please, but also heal.
To heal what is most needed - the Human Soul!
And having learned to heal, fairy tales again went around the world,
continuing to tell their stories, only now they have to
each has its own, special ...
PRINCIPLES OF WORKING WITH FAIRY TALES
Each fairy tale has its own uniqueness. However, the look
on fairy tale therapy as an educational system involves
general patterns of working with fabulous material.
eat today, creating new fairy tales. Reanimated things, creatures,
natural phenomena are capable of acting independently. Ancient
consciousness was peculiar to find personalities human
feelings and relationships Love, Grief, Kruchina, etc. This phenomenon
we also use in psychological and pedagogical practice
Folk tales are extremely important for us
1. The world around us is alive. Anything can be done at any moment
talk to us. This idea is important for the formation of a gentle and
a meaningful attitude to what surrounds us. Starting from
people, and ending with plants and man-made things.
2. The revived objects of the surrounding world are capable of action
to live independently, they have the right to their own life.
This idea is important for developing a sense of acceptance of the other.
3. Separation of good and evil, victory of good. This idea is important for
maintaining good spirits and developing striving for the best.
4. The most valuable thing is gained through the test, but what was given
for nothing, can quickly leave. This idea is important for shaping
mechanism of goal setting and patience.
5. There are many helpers around us. But they come on
help only if we cannot deal with
situation or task yourself. This idea is important for shaping
feelings of independence, as well as trust in the world around them.
All these philosophical ideas can be discussed with our
pupils and clients.
Our life is multifaceted, therefore the plots of folk tales
diverse:
Fairy tales about animals, relationships between people and the belly
them. Children under five years old identify with animals, one hundred
want to be like them. Therefore, the tales of animals ray
most of all, they will pass on life experience to young children;
Household tales. Those who say that everything is finished in fairy tales
is a wedding and no one says what will happen next, it's a mistake
are. Household tales tell about the vicissitudes of the family
life, show ways to resolve conflict situations,
form a position of common sense and a healthy sense of humor
in relation to adversity, talk about small family
tricks. therefore everyday tales irreplaceable in the family con
counseling and when working with adolescents, aimed at
formation of the image of family relations;
Scary tales. Tales about evil spirits: witches, oops
rey, ghouls and others. In modern children's subculture
there are also horror stories. Apparently, here we have
dealing with the experience of child self-therapy: repeatedly modeling and
living an alarming situation in a fairy tale, children are freed from
tensions and acquire new ways of responding;
Fairy tales. The most fascinating fairy tales for
those who are over 6-7 years old. Thanks to fairy tales, unconscious
the body of a person receives a "concentrate" of life wisdom
and information about spiritual development person.
Working with fairy tales begins with analysis, discussion. When
fabulous meanings will be worked out and associated with real
life situations, you can use other
forms of working with fairy tales: making dolls, dramatization,
drawing.
Examples of PSYCHOLOGICAL work
WITH FOLK FAIRY TALES
"Ryaba Chicken"
Interestingly, the shorter the tale, the more
it has a concentrated meaning. Let's try
to reflect with our students and clients:
1. What is this tale about?
About the gift of fate ("golden egg") and what they do with
unprepared people;
About stereotypes of human behavior (if an egg, then by
he needs to be beaten, regardless of the quality of the shell);
About accidents that usually happen naturally
("The mouse ran, waved its tail, the testicle fell and broke");
Love for your neighbor ("do not cry grandfather, do not cry baba, I will
you have another testicle, not a golden one, but a simple one ”);
About a broken dream or hope (the testicle has broken); and about
many other things.
It seems that this is not a children's fairy tale at all. Of course more
it is suitable for discussion with adults and adolescents
philosophy of life situations and the lessons that we
extract.
2. What does the fairy tale teach us?
Of course, keep your house clean, not run up to
the appearance of mice. In this case, there is hope that the golden egg
to not be broken;
Flexibility to deal with new or difficult situations. If
if Grandfather and Baba were flexible in solving the problem, they would not
began to beat the golden egg, and found him The best way example
neniya. By the way, which one?
Do not give to your neighbor what he is not ready to receive (during
asking what gifts we choose for others, and what
we wish to receive it ourselves); and much more.
All this can be a topic for discussion.
3. Please explain why Grandfather and Baba cry when
the testicle broke, because they themselves wanted it to happen,
when they beat him.
Indeed, why are Grandfather and Baba so inconsistent?
Maybe they wanted to break the egg themselves, without a stranger
help? Maybe they cry from what they saw inside
eggs are not what you expected? Maybe they really wanted
to keep the egg intact?
When discussing a fairy tale, our main task is to sum up
a child or an adult to the fact that all the phenomena of our life
are ambiguous. To do this, we "turn" the fabulous
situation as a crystal, and consider its facets.
"Kolobok"
It may seem that this is a tragic fairy tale - after all, in
at the end, its main character dies. However, let's wait with
premature interpretation.
Who is Kolobok? This is bread, pie. What is he for
was born? So that Grandfather and Baba can eat it.
Gingerbread man is born to be eaten. At the end of the tale, so
It happened. He fulfilled his purpose.
It is often said that this tale shows the child
consequences of violation of the prohibition. But it is probably more correct
would talk about a loss of vigilance and stereotype
behavior. Gingerbread man naively believes that the model of behavior,
successful in most cases, always effective. Life teaches
us flexibility, a variety of ways to solve problems, search.
The gingerbread man "rested on his laurels," and therefore lost his vigilance.
Another topic for discussion (especially with
adolescents) is the desire to test oneself. Find out your
resource opportunities. Feel to what the hell you can
reach. Gingerbread man is constantly increasing the level of difficulty
tasks, and this game draws him in, he could not during
stay. For whom will this topic of discussion become relevant?
So what does the fairy tale "Kolobok" teach us? Accepting its
destination; skill in time will stop in the process
testing yourself; awareness of the consequences of violating the prohibition;
creative problem solving? ..
"By magic"
The tale about Emelya is ambiguous. At the most superficial
level this tale can be superficially criticized
Mikhail Zadornov. Indeed, who is Emelya, how
not a "freeloader" ?! He is so lazy that he does nothing himself.
Everyone knows the aphorism: "Laziness is the engine of progress."
The pursuit of comfort gives rise to amazing engineering
solutions. So, perhaps, the self-propelled oven and sleigh reflected
the dream of our ancestors about the car?
If we consider the deeper meaning of the tale, then we can
remember the saying “we do without doing, and everything turns out
done. " But is it possible to "do without doing"? Turns out
Yes, if you make a mental action.
Emelya is a thinker, and a fairy tale shows us how they come to life
thoughts and ideas, the desired becomes real.
In order to create a mental image, a person needs
concentrate, disconnect from everyday affairs and worries,
to be alone. But such a person makes an impression
lazy. Unfortunately, at the level of events and behavior,
you can always tell a thinker from a lazy person ...
Emelya is distinguished by great inner wisdom. He is not
makes "unnecessary movements", does not fuss, lies on the stove (saves
strength for the main thing), but when he feels his chance, it becomes
active in holding it.
So what can the fairy tale about Emelya teach us, dear
reader?
Working with a fairy tale:
"The Tale of Rejuvenating Apples and Living Water"
(Russian folktale)
“In a certain kingdom, in a certain state, there was a king,
and he had three sons: the eldest was called Fedor, the second -
Vasily, and the youngest - Ivan. The king is very outdated and
eyes became impoverished, but he heard that beyond the distant lands, in
in the thirtieth kingdom there is a garden with rejuvenating apples and
well with living water. If an old man eats this apple -
will rejuvenate, and with this water to wash the eyes of a blind man will
The king gathers a feast for the whole world, invites princes and boyars to the feast
and he says to them:
Who would, guys, get out of the chosen ones, get out
of hunters, traveled to the distant lands, to the thirtieth kingdom
in, would bring rejuvenating apples and living water a jug about two
twelve stigmas? I would write off my kingdom to this rider.
Then the larger one began to be buried behind the middle one, and the middle one behind
the lesser, and from the lesser there is no answer. Tsarevich Fyodor comes out and
Reluctance to give us the kingdom to people. I will go to the road
ku, I will bring you, the king-father, rejuvenating apples and water
a jug with twelve stigmas.
Fyodor-Tsarevich went to the stable yard, chooses a horse not-
worn out, bridles an unbridled bridle, takes a whip not whipped,
puts twelve girths with a girth, not for beauty, but for the sake of
fortress ... Fyodor-Tsarevich went to the path. Saw that
sat down, but did not see in which direction he went.
Whether he rode close, far, low, high, rode to
in the evening - the sun is red until sunset. And he reached the crossroads
three roads. There is a stone slab at the crossroads, and there is an inscription
written:
to be married. "
And he turned onto the path where a married man should be. Rode, rode, and
arrives at a tower under a golden roof. Here the red runs out
maiden and says to him:
Tsar's son, I'll take you out of the saddle, come with me bread
eat and sleep-rest.
No, girl, I don't want bread and salt, but I have no time to sleep
while away time. I need to move forward.
dear to you.
Then the beautiful girl took him out of the saddle and into the tower
led. I fed him, watered him and put him to sleep on the bed.
Fyodor-Tsarevich just lay down against the wall, this girl is alive
turned, and he flew underground, into a deep hole.
How long or short - the king again gathers a feast, princes and
boyars and says to them:
Here, guys, who would have got out of the hunters is young for me
strong apples and living water a jug of twelve stigmas? I
I would write off my kingdom to this rider.
Here again, the larger one is buried for the middle one, and the middle one for
the lesser, and from the lesser there is no answer. The second son comes out,
Vasily Tsarevich:
Father, I don't want to give the kingdom into the wrong hands. I
I'll go to the track, bring these things, hand them over to you.
Vasily Tsarevich goes to the stable yard, chooses a horse not-
worn out, bridles an unbridled bridle, takes a whip unlashed;
puts twelve girths with a girth.
Vasily the Tsarevich went. They saw how he sat down, but did not see,
which way he drove away ... Here he reaches the crossroads, where
lies a slab-stone, and sees:
“You will go to the right - to save yourself, to lose your horse. Left
you go - save the horse, lose yourself. You will go straight -
to be married. "
Thought, thought Vasily Tsarevich, and drove straight along the road, where
to be married. I arrived at a tower with a golden roof. Came out to
a beautiful girl and asks him to have a bite of bread, and lie down
sleep.
Tsar's son, do not rush to go, but hurry to do what
dear to you ...
Then she took him out of the saddle, led him into the tower, fed him,
watered and put to sleep.
Only Vasily Tsarevich lay down against the wall, she again turned
bed and he flew underground.
And there they ask:
Who's flying?
Vasily Tsarevich. And who is sitting?
Fyodor Tsarevich.
Here, bro, hit!
For a long time or a short time - for the third time the Tsar gathers for a council
princes and boyars:
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Natalia Rafalskaya
Seminar - workshop on fairy tale therapy for teachers on the topic: “ Fairy kaleidoscope»
Tasks:
Development of creativity, creative self-expression;
Creating harmony in the group.
Materials: sheets of paper F4; paints, pencils, markers; scissors; glue; magazines; audio cassette with calm music recording.
Fairytale therapy is experiencing a real boom in popularity. Numerous articles appear in newspapers and magazines. Family TV and radio channels include in their programs stories about the meaning of fairy tales in the development of a child. Most education professionals, be they a computer science teacher, foreign language or an educational psychologist, try to use the metaphorical language of a fairy tale in their work.
The attractiveness of fairy tale therapy for teachers can be explained, first of all, by its universality:
The tale is informative. Through the analysis of the fairy tale invented by the client, the psychologist receives information about his life, current state, ways to overcome difficulties and worldview positions.
The fairy tale is environmentally friendly. Being not in an ordinary, but in a dramatic reality, both the client and the psychologist are emotionally protected. This reduces the risk of "burnout", increases the client's confidence in the therapeutic process.
The tale is endless. By supplementing, changing, enriching the fairy tale, the client (psychologist) overcomes self-limitations and complements, changes and enriches his life.
The fairy tale is enchanting. The work of a psychologist, poor in demonstrativeness, gets the opportunity to be visible: turning to fairy tale therapy, he can use various dolls, costumes, musical instruments, artistic products of activity, and possibly a psychological puppet or drama theater.
The tale is emotional. Through participation in fairy-tale therapy sessions, a positive emotional charge is accumulated, social immunity is strengthened.
The tale is wise. Through a fairy tale, there is an opportunity to convey to a child, parents or teachers new ways and algorithms for getting out of a problem situation.
Another great advantage of the fairy tale is the absence of age restrictions. It is effective not only with preschoolers or junior schoolchildren, for whom it is their “native language”, but also with adults.
The process of self-expression through a fairy tale is directly related to the strengthening of a person's mental health and can be considered as a significant psycho-preventive factor. The use of fairy tale therapy technologies makes it possible to cope with their problems, restore emotional balance or eliminate existing behavioral disorders, overcome maladjustment, and contribute to intellectual development.
Now I suggest you sit down more comfortably, you can close your eyes, and listen to a fairy tale (to calm music).
"The Tale of the Wizard"(meditation)
“It was a long time ago. There was one amazing person in the world. He was handsome and kind. It's hard to say how old he was. His eyes sparkled so fervently that many thought: "He is very young." But looking at his long gray beard and hair, others said, "He is old and wise." This man knew how to do what others did not. He cooked with trees and flowers, animals and fish, underground waters and roots. He could cure diseased plants, animals and even humans. Many came to him for advice.
People called him the Wizard. No one knew where he came from, but they said that before he was an ordinary person, like everyone else.
Generations changed, and the Wizard still lived among people, and they felt that they were under his protection.
Once the Wizard told people:
I have lived among you for a long time. I feel like it's time for me to hit the road.
Why are you leaving us? - people said sadly. - It will not be easy for us without your protection and good advice... Give us at least a piece of your wisdom, they asked.
Look around, - said the Wizard, - you live in a wonderful world. Every day you can meet and see off the sun, listen to how the trees rustle and the water splashes, the logs crackle in the fire and the earth breathes. Let's freeze for a minute and listen. Do you feel it? Everything that surrounds us lives in its own Rhythm. And each of us has its own rhythm.
People froze, closed their eyes and heard how the earth breathes evenly and calmly, how waves splash on the shore - now quickly, now slowly. And most importantly, each of them heard their own rhythm: a calm heartbeat, free breathing. And suddenly people were seized by the feeling that something new and unusual was happening to them.
The Amazing and the Magic grows within us, - they told the Wizard with delight.
It looks like you have discovered my most important secret, - smiled the Wizard. - After all, Magic is the ability to hear and feel the Rhythm of Nature, everything that surrounds us, and live in accordance with it, making amazing transformations around, creating the world... You just need to hear your Rhythm and awaken the Creator living inside everyone, and the Magic will begin.
How are we going to use it? - people asked.
You can imagine yourself healthy and a handsome man, consider your image and capture it in your heart, and then sculpt it out of clay, - answered the Wizard. - And gradually, even imperceptibly for yourself, you will begin to change.
You can learn to hear the inner Rhythm of another person, to find correspondence with your Rhythm, and then every day will give the joy of mutual understanding.
You can learn to see in every event a Lesson for yourself, and then anxieties and worries will be replaced by peace and clarity. "
And now I want to invite you to listen to yourself, to feel the life of 4 elements inside yourself: earth, water, fire, air. In order for them to come to life, you now need to split into four groups (in a circle). Each group will show the power, beauty and necessity of one of the elements in our life.
The subgroups do a short rehearsal and act out in front of the rest of the participants.
Discussion:
How did you choose the roles?
Who first suggested using something?
How was the plot created?
"Anonymous Gift" (drawing)
“Now, please take some sheets of paper and try to portray the feelings that you are experiencing right now. Anything you may need you can find on the table. "
The recording of calm music is turned on, the group members are doing work on the theme "My feelings". Each participant should be busy only with their own work. After the drawings are ready, all group members are invited to transfer them to a special place. At the same time, the authors of the works remain anonymous. Each member of the group examines all the work and chooses the one that aroused a response in him, the desire to give a gift. After that, the group members make small gifts with wishes and put them on those works that they liked. If someone's work is left without a gift, the group makes a collective gift for this participant.
“See what wonderful creations you have made. And let all that you have created here in Everyday life helps you understand yourself better. "
Literature:
The Practice of Fairy Tale Therapy / Ed. N. A. Sakovich. - SPb. : Speech, 2007.